Beat The Resistance
In this week’s Brilliant Insights, I want to talk to you about how to beat the resistance in your goals.
The story for most women when it comes to goals is that they start out strong and then fizzle out. The number reason you fizzle out is because of the resistance you encounter.
Last week I talked about conversion aka alignment and how conversion is what equips you for the “battles” you encounter on your way to the promised land of your goal. If you remember, God did not lead the Israelites down the shortest path to the promised land because they were not ready for the battles they would encounter.
In the same way, most women are not ready for the resistance they will encounter on the way to their goal. So, when they set a goal and start going down that path, the resistance (battles) they encounter send them back to Egypt.
There are many programs out there that promise a short path to results, but the success rate is very low. Why? Because that short path is filled with resistance that you are not equipped to face.
The only solution that traditional goal setting offers in this scenario is pushing through.
And you can push through for a bit – maybe even push through to get the result. But the process depletes your energy and when you achieve the result you no longer have the energy or capacity to maintain that result.
Then you find yourself back at the beginning, starting the process all over.
When this happens too many times, you eventually buy into the lie that you don’t have what it takes to reach a goal
I would love to dispel that lie for you.
The truth is that you DO have what it takes, you just haven’t been taught HOW to use it.
This is the brilliance of THE V.A.L.U.E. GOAL™. She takes your unique abilities and defines a success strategy that is unique to you. She shows you how to leverage what you already carry to master the resistance.
THE V.A.L.U.E. GOAL™ teaches women a three-part strategy to breaking through the resistance.
A - Alignment
B – Breakthrough
C – Commitments
These are the ABC’s, the fundamentals to successful goals and sustainable momentum.
These fundamental skill sets are what equip you to conquer any resistance you face. The reality is that you are going to face resistance no matter where you are in your journey. Even Jesus faced resistance as a human.
The resistance that you will face will be both internal and external. These skill sets address both the internal and external resistance.
However, there is one common thread in all of these that I want to share with you today that you can put into practice and begin to see change.
It’s one word – Learn
When you encounter resistance, instead of pushing through ask this question: What can I learn from this resistance?
Instead of seeing resistance as an enemy, see resistance as a teacher.
This one maneuver is a game-changer.
Ask yourself this question each time you feel tension, resistance, or overwhelm this next week. Then let me know what you learned! I’d love to know.
If you want more information on how to conquer the resistance in your life, click one of the options below to reach out.
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To Your Success From Rest,
“For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matt 11:30